Stop Repeating Relationship Mistakes
You Already Know Better Than to Make
Your mind replays everything—from the beginning to the moment it fell apart.
You saw signs. You felt hesitation. But you moved forward anyway.
Now you’re trying to understand what you missed…
and whether you’re about to do it again.
A simple framework introduced in the book—and applied in the workbook—to help you stop repeating the same relationship decisions.
I’m not speaking from theory.
I’m speaking from experience.
THREE MARRIAGES
Hard lessons.
Patterns I didn’t recognize until they cost me.
This isn’t advice.
It’s recognition.
Meet Christopher L. Lyles, Sr.
Christopher L. Lyles, Sr. lives by a simple principle:
Control what you can control and let God handle the rest.
With nearly 30 years in corporate leadership and decades in ministry, he brings structure, faith, and real-world perspective.
But his most powerful insights didn’t come from success.
They came from experience.
As a man who’s been married three times, Chris doesn’t position himself as an expert—he positions himself as someone who’s lived it.
“ Based on my track record, some might say I’m an expert at getting relationships wrong.”
That honesty is exactly what makes his message real.
Start With the Truth. Then Apply It.
Awareness is one thing.
Application is what changes everything.
This isn’t a book about perfect relationships.
It’s about the decisions that quietly destroy them.
The ones you felt…
ignored…
and justified anyway.
The workbook takes it further.
It forces you to slow down, reflect, and apply what you already know—
so you stop repeating the same decisions.
Bring This Conversation
Into the Room
Christopher L. Lyles, Sr. is available for:
Speaking engagements
Relationship workshops
Faith-based discussions
Leadership and decision-making sessions
One-on-one or group consultations
Whether it’s a church, organization, or private event—this message meets people where they are and challenges them to move forward differently.
"This book hit me in ways I didn’t expect. It’s raw, honest, and painfully real—but it also gave me hope to move forward and start again."
"I’ve never read anything that explains marriage and divorce so truthfully. It made me reflect on my own relationship in a completely different way."
"Chris doesn’t pretend to have all the answers—and that’s what makes this book so powerful. It feels real, relatable, and deeply personal."
This Isn’t Just Being Read.
It’s Being Felt.
Wear It. Carry It. Live It.
This isn’t just something you read once.
It’s something you live with—every day.
This Don’t Ask Sh#% About Marriage Premium Short Sleeve Tee delivers a clean, classic fit with a soft yet durable feel. Designed with a smooth surface and reinforced construction, it’s perfect for daily wear, layering, and high-quality prints, a reliable go-to you’ll reach for again and again.
• 100% combed ring-spun cotton
• Fabric weight: 5.5 oz/yd² (180g/m²)
• Side-seamed construction
• Drop shoulder sleeves
• 1 × 1 ribbed collar reinforced neckline
• Tear-away tag
• Blank product sourced from Bangladesh
What’s your favorite chapter of the book? This Premium Short Sleeve Tee delivers a clean, classic fit with a soft yet durable feel. Designed with a smooth surface and reinforced construction, it’s perfect for daily wear, layering, and high-quality prints, a reliable go-to you’ll reach for again and again.
• 100% combed ring-spun cotton
• Fabric weight: 5.5 oz/yd² (180g/m²)
• Side-seamed construction
• Drop shoulder sleeves
• 1 × 1 ribbed collar reinforced neckline
• Tear-away tag
• Blank product sourced from Bangladesh
• Ceramic
• 11 oz mug dimensions: height 3.85" (9.8 cm), diameter 3.35" (8.5 cm)
• 15 oz mug dimensions: height 4.7" (12 cm), diameter 3.35" (8.5 cm)
• Lead and BPA-free material
• Glossy finish
• Dishwasher and microwave safe
• Cover material: UltraHyde hardcover paper
• Size: 5.5" × 8.5" (13.97 cm × 21.59 cm)
• Weight: 10.9 oz (309 g)
• 80 pages of lined, cream-colored paper
• Matching elastic closure and ribbon marker
• Expandable inner pocket
You Already Know Better.
The Question Is—Will You Act On It?
You’ve seen the patterns.
You’ve felt the hesitation.
Now it’s time to do something different.
Start with awareness. Then apply it.